Table Talk: Dinner’s On Me Week Two
DINNER’S ON ME: Our Place at Jesus’s Table
Here’s a short description of our current sermon series.
We will journey through the Gospel of Luke, exploring the profound significance of meals in Jesus' ministry. More than just moments of sustenance, these shared tables became powerful settings for divine encounters, transformative teachings, and radical grace. From dining with outcasts to revealing his resurrected presence, Jesus consistently used meals to break down barriers, challenge societal norms, and demonstrate the heart of God. Through these stories, we'll discover how Jesus' invitations to the table reveal his heart for the marginalized, his commitment to meeting both physical and spiritual needs, and his desire for intimate fellowship. This series invites us to reconsider our own tables, prompting us to ask: How can we extend radical hospitality, engage in meaningful conversations, recognize the presence of Jesus in our midst, and bear his presence to others? We’ll discover together how these ancient meals can transform our understanding of grace, service, and the very nature of God's kingdom.
Spiritual Practice: Meaningful Meals
We believe that Jesus’ teaching is more than just knowledge for our minds (though it is certainly that). It should transform our actions. By living out - or practicing - the ways of Jesus, we are being shaped into a people who look more and more like Him.
Gathering around the table is a consistent and significant practice from some of the first pages of Scripture to some of the last. But in our hurried, busy lives, meals can become something we squeeze in between activities or quickly check off our list. How would it change our family relationships, friendships, communities, and inner lives if we saw meals through the eyes of God? What if we took time to recognize God’s gift to us in both the provision of food and the provision of community? This summer, we want to grow in the practice of Meaningful Meals. Here are some ways to start, or deepen, this practice:
Gather: Increase the amount of time you spend gathered around the table. If you rarely eat with your family, friends, or small group, begin by scheduling one meal per week when you will intentionally sit down to eat with others. If you are already doing this, try increasing the number of times you gather with others to eat.
Set aside distractions: Put away phones. Turn off the tv. Remove whatever distractions you can. Take this time to be present with one another and open to God’s goodness and blessing.
Thank God together: Take a few moments at the beginning of your meal to thank God for his provision, and ask Him to help you see the time together through His eyes. You could allow each person to share a way God blessed them that day.
Listen to one another: Cultivate meaningful conversations. Take your time to really listen without rushing to the next activity. If you need some conversation starters, you could use those listed in this guide for each week, or there are a multitude of mealtime conversation starters available online.
BONUS PRACTICE: Invite others: Ask a friend, relative, co-worker, or acquaintance to join your family/group for a meal.
Prayer
You can pray this prayer daily during the sermon series, or use it as a closing for table conversations each week.
Jesus, You came to show us how to live a full and abundant life. We are created with bodies that need to be fed and with souls that need to connect with You and with others. Jesus, You took time to gather around the table with friends, outcasts, and seekers, to connect deeply with them and to show them your love. Help us to see one another through Your eyes and to pour out on one another the same love that You have freely given to us. Transform our understanding of grace, service, and Your Kingdom through the experience of gathering around the table together. In Your name, we pray. Amen.
SERMON SUMMARY Jesus attended a formal dinner at the home of Simon the Pharisee, a gathering intended for intellectual discourse among the elite. The open design of these dining areas allowed public eavesdropping, which led to the intrusion of a "sinful woman." Her dramatic display of devotion in this exclusive space shocked the guests. While Simon's self-righteousness fueled his indignation, Jesus saw the woman's heart, recognizing her desire for forgiveness. Jesus' ministry was often punctuated by interruptions—cries for help from the fringes, touches from the crowd. He never responded with anger at these disruptions to his plans. Instead, he compassionately paused to meet their needs. Jesus prioritized the unexpected person in need over his own agenda. How does this reshape our approach to ministry and compassion?
Conversation Starters
KIDS Have you ever wanted to go somewhere fun or do something exciting, but you had to wait because your brother/sister/friend needed help? Maybe they got hurt or they were very sad and needed your mom’s/dad’s/grandma’s attention. Maybe you were the one who stopped to help them. How does it feel when our plans are interrupted? Jesus showed us that people are more important than our plans. He always took time to help. Can we look for people who might need our help today?
STUDENTS How do you usually respond when your plans are interrupted by someone else’s needs? This happens often around younger siblings or relatives. You are busy playing a game, but your little brother needs help getting a snack or finding something he’s lost. (Maybe you’ve been the younger sibling who needs help!) Is it easy for you to have patience and compassion in those moments? How could you show a more Christ-like attitude when your plans are interrupted by others?
ADULTS Is your life organized in a way that allows for interruptions - “cries for help from the fringes, touches from the crowd”? How do you react when your co-worker, kids, parent/grandparent, or a stranger needs a listening ear, help with their homework, or someone to change their tire? How could you grow to be more like Christ in those moments? What impact could this have on you and on those around you?
